Crystals for the heart & The best crystals for love

Crystals can be a powerful tool for healing our hearts, finding love, repairing a relationship and can even have a physical effect on our hearts too. I go into detail on the Crystals For The Heart & The Best Crystals For Love below.

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Crystals For The Heart

Physically

Use these crystals to assist in helping your physical heart. Wear them near your heart, meditate with them or place them on your heart when lying down for relaxation or meditation. 

• Rose Quartz can help stabilize when there’s been physical heart trauma and imbalance. It can help strengthen the heart from weakness or disease.

• Rhodochrosite is great for anti-anxiety and anti-stress. When you need to calm your heart and be in a more peaceful state, wear rhodochrosite to slow down.

• Green Aventurine helps heal and regulate the heart and circulatory system. It stimulates cell repair and general healing. 

• Green Jade helps heal the physical heart from trauma or injury.

• Emerald can help the heart heal from imbalance and disease.

• Morganite can help support the physical heart by strengthening its energy field. 

• Pink Tourmaline can help with recovery from heart attack, irregular heartbeat and angina by calming and soothing the heart.

Heart Chakra Crystals

What are chakras?

Chakras are energy centers of the body. There are seven chakras that run through your body, starting from the root chakra at the base of your spine all the way up to the crown chakra at the top of your head. They connect your physical and etheric bodies. 

The physical body is made up of your skin, bones, organs, fluids, thoughts and beliefs while your etheric body is made of your energy, spirituality, emotions and your connection to the higher realms.

Each chakra is associated with specific energies, body parts and emotional, mental and spiritual issues. 

If you’re dealing with health issues in your physical body chances are the related chakra is imbalanced.

Location of your heart chakra

The fourth chakra is is your heart chakra which is located in the center of your chest. It’s associated with love and healing. Physically it affects the heart, lungs. Ribs, upper back. Arms, shoulder, hands, circulatory system and breathing. 

Color of your heart chakra

The heart chakra is green but also responds to pink crystals. 

Signs your heart chakra is imbalanced or blocked:

• Grieving a death, broken heart or any type of loss
• Fear of commitment
• Trouble with giving and receiving love
• Asthma, allergies, shoulder tightness

Signs that your heart chakra is balanced and open:

• You give and receive love easily
• Feelings of gratitude
• Appreciate the people in your life and feel compassion toward them and yourself

Chakra crystals that help balance the heart chakra are green or pink such as malachite, jade, aventurine, and rose quartz.

Opening the heart chakra

If you feel like your heart chakra is imbalanced or blocked, there’s some easy things you can do to help open it.

Crystals are an effective way to bring balance to your chakras. Holding crystals or being near them causes them to interact with your body’s energy field and chakras. 

Quantum theory states that when you examine the tiniest levels of matter, it’s all vibrating strands of energy surrounded by empty space. Energetic fields hold the vibrating strands into the shapes that make up the matter we see and experience as a solid material, like your desk or your hand. 

Physically we are energy, our bodily functions, our thoughts and our emotions are all made up of energy. We feel when someone has “good vibes” we enjoy being around that person and in turn their good vibes can affect our mood. 

Crystals vibrate at different energetic frequencies depending on their shape, color and what they’re made of. If we wear the crystals or place them near us or on our bodies they’re energy can have an impact on our energy field and chakras.

You can use crystals by wearing them, keeping them near you, like on your desk while you’re working or in your pocket. Many women like to place a small tumbled stone in their bra. You can’t get much closer to your heart chakra than that. 

Wearing a necklace allows it to rest in your heart chakra space too. A crystal bracelet will emanate enough energy to affect your chakras too.

Crystals for the heart chakra

Green crystals for the heart chakra

Green represents the heart chakra, unconditional love and compassion. It also promotes health and wealth. There are many green crystals to choose from. 

Green crystals include:

• Amazonite
• Aventurine
• Jade
• Emerald
• Fluorite
• Malachite
• Moss agate
• peridot

Pink crystals for the heart chakra

Pink is associated with the heart chakra, love, relationships, forgiveness and commitment. It can also help with grief.

Pink crystals include:

• Rose quartz
• Rhodonite
• Morganite
• Pink tourmaline
• Ruby

I carry a small heart rose quartz crystal with me when I’m feeling sad. It helps me release the grief and receive the love and compassion I need from others when I’m going through a tough time. 

Heart shaped crystals for the heart chakra

Since Rose Quartz is the love crystal, having it in the shape of a heart will reinforce its benefits. Same with heart shaped green crystals. 

The Best Crystals For Love

Whether it’s self-love, attracting a partner, having a healthier marriage or just being lucky in love, here are the best crystals for love. 

Crystals for self-love

Self-love is important for a happy life.

Putting yourself down, thinking you’re not good enough, obsessing over the way you look, avoiding pictures, and thinking you’re not good enough are all negative thoughts that stop you from living a joyful life.

These are all tied to not being able to accept yourself and love yourself and it’s toxic.

Practice self-love and acceptance and those negative thoughts will lessen. They will be replaced with positive thoughts that can lead to healing your heart and bringing you joy.

Crystals can assist you in cultivating self-love. Add in a daily affirmation and you’ll be on your way to feeling better about yourself. 

Rose Quartz

The loving energy of Rose Quartz can heal you from emotional turmoil and anxiety. It will teach you to love yourself, trust in yourself and see your self-worth.

You can find it in all shapes and sizes. Raw, tumbled and polished into various shapes and commonly used in jewelry. Wear it as a necklace so it’s close to your heart, as a bracelet, earrings and even a ring is beneficial. 

Put it around your house to benefit from its loving energy and it will bring peace to your living areas. You can’t have too much of this loving stone. 

I go into depth about rose quartz in the post, “Rose Quartz Meaning & How To Use It For Healing”. 

Rose quartz crystal jewelry collection here.

Rhodochrosite

Rhodochrosite is a banded crystal that can range in color from light pink to rosy red. It comes in all sizes and is usually polished or tumbled. 

Pink crystals all relate to love, but rhodochrosite is specifically good for self-love because it helps with emotional healing and trauma. This crystal is good for someone who has suffered abuse. It teaches the heart to assimilate painful feelings without shutting down.

By bringing the painful feelings up and releasing them, a person can use that energy to heal and have compassion for themselves.

This self-love leads to confidence. They can finally allow their talents and gifts to come out of hiding and become who they were meant to be. 

Rhodochrosite is best worn on the wrist or place on your heart or solar plexus.

Ocean Jasper

Is an unusual jasper only found in Madagascar. Its color varies widely in shades of  white, green, pink, red and black. Its patterns vary too. It can have banding, dots, lines, scalloped edges and multi-color florets. It can have cavities of druzy quartz. 

If you’ve been dealing with negative thought patterns, Ocean Jasper can help you change that. It helps with positive self-expression, emotional healing and releases negativity so you can enjoy your life. 

Its positive vibes will lift your mood and make it easier to see and appreciate the good in your life and see the good in yourself. It will help you clear those limiting thoughts and stuck patterns that prevent you from loving yourself. 

Crystal affirmations for self-love

Make these part of your morning routine and use them when you need a boost of self-love and encouragement. Hold a crystal in your hand or lay on your heart chakra when saying these affirmations. Say them three times. 

“I am enough, I am proud of myself and I love myself unconditionally”.

Crystals For Marriage and Committed Relationships

The daily grind can get us stuck in routines. Days and weeks seem to fly-bye. We can get too comfortable and take our relationships for granted.

We get easily distracted by our technology and endless scrolling and continuous episodes of Netflix shows.

These crystals can help you stay connected in your relationship. 

Chrysoprase

Chrysoprase is a green crystal, getting its color from the presence of nickel found in the nickel deposits it’s mined from.

If you’re distracted by your phone 24/7, this crystal can encourage you to put it down and connect with your loved ones. It can help you be present and prioritize spending time with them. 

If you’re in a new relationship, it can help you overcome past disappointments and any resentment you may have so you can approach your new relationship with excitement and joy. It can help you identify negative relationship patterns so you can clear them for your new one. 

Rhodonite

This is a great crystal to have when you’re in a fight with your partner.

Rhodonite is a stone of self-worth and has the potential to uncover your hidden talents so you may share them with the world and live a fulfilling life. 

It also encourages you to be compassionate and empathetic, so if you get into a fight with a loved one it will help you forgive them. It will help you approach the situation with calmness, love and understanding. 

Crystal Affirmations For Marriage and Committed Relationships

Make these part of your affirmations and use them when your relationship needs a little boost. Hold a crystal in your hand or lay on your heart chakra when saying these affirmations. Say them three times. 

“I love [partner name] unconditionally”

“I appreciate and am grateful for [partner name]”

“We have fun and enjoy each-others company.”

Crystals For Love and Romance

If your life or relationship is lacking in the romance department, these crystals can help spice it up.

Sunstone

Sunstone like its name suggests is a stone of the sun. It varies in color from orange to red brown with sparkly inclusions.  It will bring light into your life and fire into the bedroom by removing self-doubt, fear and unworthiness. 

As a sacral chakra crystal it can help spice up your sex life and give you the confidence to do it. It can restore joy, optimism and enthusiasm in your life.

Carnelian

Carnelian is orange to red in color and connects with your sacral chakra which drives sexuality and creativity. 

It will give you confidence to ask for what you want and communicate what you like in the bedroom. It will give you vitality and activate your life force. 

It’s a stimulating stone and will give you energy and motivate you to take action and dedicate yourself to a new path.

Crystal Affirmation For Love and Romance

Make these part of your affirmations when you need a romantic boost. Hold a crystal in your hand or lay on your sacral chakra (below your belly button) when saying these affirmations. Say them three times. 

“I am confident and sexy.”

Crystals For Manifesting Love and Dating

With a little luck and unconditional love for yourself, these crystals will support your quest for finding true love.

Aventurine

Wear aventurine on a first date, because it will bring you good luck and confidence.

Aventurine can help you manifest love by bringing you good luck, making it easier for you to deal with the challenges of dating in the modern world and the ups and downs that come with it. 

You can  magnify the energies of aventurine by wearing moonstone, morganite or green and pink tourmaline with it. This will help you find love more easily.

Malachite

Malachite is a heart chakra crystal with banded patterns in light to dark green colors. Usually tumbled and polished into various shapes, it can help heal your heart. 

In relationships it can help you see the patterns that are not serving you, like continually choosing partners that you’re not compatible with.

It will protect you from negative energy and increase your intuition allowing you to detect the presence of danger or if someone is not good for you. 

Rose quartz

It can help you attract love by emitting the vibrational energy of love. By radiating love, you attract it. This is very effective at drawing love and relationships towards you. 

If you’re looking for a romantic partner, wear a Rose Quartz bracelet on your left wrist to attract love. 

Crystal Affirmations For Attracting Love

Saying an affirmation with your crystal can program it and tell the universe what you want. This can help you manifest love in your life. 

Rose Quartz for love affirmation: “I am open to receiving love”.

Crystals for the heart & The best crystals for love

This is just scratches the surface of crystals for the heart and the best crystals for love. There are many more out there that can help you find a partner, heal a broken heart, reconcile with a loved one or send energy to strengthen your physical heart.

Are there any crystals that have helped your heart? Leave a comment below.